The reluctant driver

By Jamie
Tips for Parents

When I look at the kids log books and I see that they have had their L’s for ages, but have very few hours logged, I ask them about it.  Invariably they say “I don’t like driving, but Mum/Dad makes me”.  I dig a little further and most of the time they tell me they are frightened of having an accident and hurting people.

Interesting given that statistically a learner driver is the least likely of all drivers to be involved in an accident

Here’s some ideas to put them at ease:

  • Explain that the likelihood of having an accident is very slim
  • Reassure them that if there is an accident they won’t get into trouble, it is an accident after all
  • Start small by going to a quiet area and gradually expand your horizons
  • Ask if they would rather start with a driving school. Often a couple of hours sets them up with the confidence they need to alleviate their fears and start enjoying learning to drive
  • Above all don’t pressure them, but regularly talk about it and keep the subject current
  • Some kids just aren’t ready when they turn 16, and won’t even attempt the L’s test. Just keep encouraging them
  • Try getting involved by studying the road rules with them, perhaps have a quiz. You never know you may learn something too.

The Road Users Handbook, and the Guide to the Driving Test are available on the RMS website (links attached).  There is a fee charged for the Road Users Handbook.

https://www.rms.nsw.gov.au/roads/licence/documents-forms.html#RoadUsers'Handbook

https://www.rms.nsw.gov.au/documents/roads/licence/guide-to-driving-test.pdf

https://practicetest.rms.nsw.gov.au/pages/practice-tests?init=true

 

Good Luck

Jamie

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